Some time ago a friend asked me to accompany him to one of his uncles' house and on getting there we met quite a number of people trying to settle a kind of misunderstanding between the uncle and the wife over the husband's infidelity.
The husbnad while trying to explain reasons for his action emphasised the fact that his wife un-coperating attitudes whenever he demanded for sex is what actually led him to have extra-marital affairs. Trust the women, the wife quickly countered that his demand was becoming unhealthy and unreasonable for her to meet!
After some efforts by those present, the tension over the matter was doused and the wife was pacified and the husband adviced to desist from such act of infidelity.
However, later on that day, I became thoughtful over the matter and asked myself several questions such as:
*Is a partner justified for infidelity if his/her spouse should refuse his/her sex advances?
*Can a man or woman be truly satisfied with one partner?
*When a man or woman is cheationg on his/her partner, does he/she still truly love the other person?
*Can true love overlook infidelity?
*Who truly benefit from the act of infidelity, the cheating partner or the third party?
*Can infidelity be permitted in an unhealthy relationship?
*Can a cheating spouse/partner be forgiven at all?
*How can a cheating partner/ spouse be truly forgiven?
I know some people out there have insatiable appetite for sex that they would sleep with anything in skirt withou any thought for morality or what have you.
In wrapping up this post, when was the last time you cheated on your spouse?
Tough question? Think about it
The husbnad while trying to explain reasons for his action emphasised the fact that his wife un-coperating attitudes whenever he demanded for sex is what actually led him to have extra-marital affairs. Trust the women, the wife quickly countered that his demand was becoming unhealthy and unreasonable for her to meet!
After some efforts by those present, the tension over the matter was doused and the wife was pacified and the husband adviced to desist from such act of infidelity.
However, later on that day, I became thoughtful over the matter and asked myself several questions such as:
*Is a partner justified for infidelity if his/her spouse should refuse his/her sex advances?
*Can a man or woman be truly satisfied with one partner?
*When a man or woman is cheationg on his/her partner, does he/she still truly love the other person?
*Can true love overlook infidelity?
*Who truly benefit from the act of infidelity, the cheating partner or the third party?
*Can infidelity be permitted in an unhealthy relationship?
*Can a cheating spouse/partner be forgiven at all?
*How can a cheating partner/ spouse be truly forgiven?
I know some people out there have insatiable appetite for sex that they would sleep with anything in skirt withou any thought for morality or what have you.
In wrapping up this post, when was the last time you cheated on your spouse?
Tough question? Think about it
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